31 January 2010

STREET GANGS IN HELENA , MONTANA

Its gangs like these that the people of Helena have to put up with.

A bit different from the problems in other cities....

It proves that every State has their own "unique" gang problems.

They roam the streets and yards night and day.

They hang out in even the best neighborhoods!

.....and you CAN NOT(legally) shoot them.






faith, hope, love

requirements of a happy life


25 January 2010

sometimes things happen that change our lives forever
we ask 'why?' over and over again (do we think that will change things?)
and sometimes we just need to believe that things will work out
life is a blend of so many beautiful things, and some not so beautiful things - as seen through our clueless eyes
we try to understand and sometimes we do, but other times we just need to have faith that things will work out - that everything happens for a reason
that what we are seeing is the little picture
what we need to do is wait to view the big picture

I have a new-found belief that I try to 'believe' more, to 'trust' more
and shed the old attitude of looking at things in a defeated way
but we don't always handle things that good, we need to be open to the possibilities
I am trying to break those old habits and have a stronger faith
the old way certainly didn't work for me
but the new way 'feels' so much better - believing and trusting in God lifts me up

on the days I put myself in God's hands are my best days

I hope to always be thankful for my blessings - even when they come in disguises

24 January 2010



a sassy little Keegan
- discovering his power to make his family laugh  :-)



Keep God in your life every day
and remember to be humble



22 January 2010


I love plants - inside and out.
I have several favorites and here are a few:  donkey tail, baby tears, and orchids.  Hopefully some day I will learn the secret of growing orchids.  Only once have I had one re-bloom for me.  There's always hope, isn't there?


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be happy with what you have

21 January 2010

Birthday Wishes

Becky turns 30 today! 
officially @ 5:28 p.m.




I wish you a wonderful day and year ahead
May your life be filled with love, happiness and contentment

And remember, the more candles, the bigger the wish!



20 January 2010



'Queen of Greektown' dies at 97, leaving few clues about her past


Doug Guthrie / The Detroit News

Detroit--The mystery of one of Detroit's most colorful and misunderstood street people continues even after her death over the weekend.

Stella Paris, a Greektown fixture from the 1960s through the mid-1990s, died Saturday at East Grand Nursing Home in Detroit. She was 97, one of the few facts not in dispute about the mentally ill woman's past, that includes questions about citizenship that left her without benefits to pay for her care or even her burial.

Variously known as Greektown Stella, the Queen of Greektown and the Screaming Banshee, she wore odd nurses uniforms adorned with military insignia and she menacingly carried a police nightstick.

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For years, anyone within earshot of Trappers Alley, old Detroit Recorder's Court and the Detroit Police headquarters knew Paris and her high-decibel, seemingly incoherent screams and rants. Tourists and patrons of Greektown's shops and restaurants were frequently shocked by her erratic reactions to a world she had difficulty comprehending.

"I met Stella when I was 14, in 1968, a little suburban girl in town for a peace march. She scared the living daylights out of me," said Alicia Chapman, who runs Alicianna, which advocates for and trains others to help people like Paris. "Stella spoke only Greek interspersed with a language completely her own, as so many mentally ill street people do."

But, despite her frequently startling behavior, it was Greektown's shopkeepers and restaurateurs who fed Paris. Nurses from Detroit Receiving Hospital gave her clothes. She had a chair in the courthouse where she sat mending her tattered belongings.

Police officers say they looked the other way when she slept in the basement at police headquarters or bathed in their sinks. Her clothes would be left to dry on lawns and shrubs near the Wayne County Jail.

"I was a civilian cadet working in the identification section at police headquarters in 1975 when I first met Stella," said Wayne County Sheriff Benny Napoleon. "Nobody I know ever knew where she came from. She was just always there, like so many of the mentally ill we just never have seemed to have the resources to help. She seemed scary to some, but I always saw her has harmless and sad."

Over the years, legends grew around the woman: That she was married and deserted by a rich man; that she had sons who were doctors and lawyers; that she was once married to royalty.

None of the stories were true, said Max Lemaux, 74, a Detroit Police sergeant who retired in 1991.

"I was assigned to the court back in 1974 when she got arrested again. She was always getting arrested for ordinance violations and then the judges would turn her loose. I got asked to dig up some background on her. I got a girl from probation who spoke Greek and we spent some time talking with her in a little apartment above the old Athens Bar."

Lemaux said he learned Paris had a brother who lived in the western suburbs, "Farmington Hills, I think. I talked to him."

Paris had never been married. She never had any children.

"I don't know how many times she was victimized or abused, but I'm sure it was often," Lemaux said. "People gave her money all the time and bad people knew that. One Thanksgiving, I handed her a $20 bill and she pulled out a wad of money so big she could have taken everybody in the joint to Aruba."

Lemaux said he never heard Paris say a word in English, and she only occasionally appeared to understand those around her.

"She was just a lost soul out on the street. Sometimes she'd carry on and scream like hell, and I'd think it was because she'd gotten robbed again. But then, sometimes if you looked cross-eyed at her, she'd scream, too."

Broderick T. Williams, a 62-year-old retired Detroit police commander, said he was carrying a camera in Greektown sometime in the 1980s when he pointed it at Paris, and she surprised him by smiling and giving him a salute.

"Nobody was her real buddy. I used to literally see her sleeping in doorways and she was always cautious like an animal, but her hair was always neat and she always wore her makeup. For some reason, she did that little salute, and I got it. I showed it to her later, and I got a smile from her then, too."

In 1994, Paris got picked up again, for brandishing a knife, and this time the judge's recommendation was placement in a nursing facility. Because her citizenship was never proven, she got passed from facility to facility, leaving huge debts in her wake. East Grand Nursing Home is owed about $100,000, and there is no money for her burial.

Patricia Wheeler-Phillips, an investigator hired by the nursing home to find relatives, said Paris was born in Greece in 1912.

"She was not illiterate. She had a driver's license years ago," she said. John Barton, a member of the family that has operated East Grand Nursing Home since 1947, remembers being frightened by Paris on visits to Greektown. But he said she was different by the time she arrived in his facility.

"She was an icon," Barton said. "By the time we got her, she was calm and benign. She would blow kisses to staff and there was a time I walked past her and she ... kissed my hand. I told her, 'Thank you Ms. Stella.' In her turbulent mind, there was finally peace and a sense of feeling safe."

Divine Intervention

There have been three very big moments in my adult life that I 'felt' help at profound moments.  Each time I think of those moments, or share them with someone, an overwhelming feeling comes over me.  I don't doubt for a moment that is was 'luck'.

And this week I realize that something that happened Saturday night will be considered the 4th one.  It's a little different, but regardless, there is no other explanation.  And the thankful feeling I have had from that moment, has not left me.

Saturday night I was at a Renaissance-style wedding reception on the other side of town (over 40 miles from my home).  I left the reception early, anxious to pick up my dog at my daughter's home and head home.  Shortly thereafter I was on my way.   I was second in line, stopped at a red traffic light.  As I looked in my rear-view mirror, I saw a vehicle fastly approaching my mine.  I knew I was getting hit.  After impact and forcing my car into the vehicle in front of me, I grabbed my cell phone and got out of the car to call 911.  I didn't realize I left the car door open - with Sophie inside.  When I realized what I did, I hurried back to the open door, panic taking over, and there sat my Sophie, sitting patiently on the driver seat.  I had such a feeling of shock and relief.  Blessed is what I was, because Sophie likes to venture around.  She's a very nosey dog.  But there she sat, waiting for me.

Thank you, Jesus, for watching over my dog and me.



19 January 2010

                                                                                                                                            Update on a Los Angeles County Fire Dept. Search and Rescue Unit assisting in Haiti.


GO HUNTER!!!


Hunter, a search and rescue Border Collie, shown here before his deployment to Haiti, has been credited with finding three young girls under 4 feet of concrete yesterday as reported in the Los Angeles Daily News.

After barking to let his handler Bill Monahan know, the rest of the LA County Task Force 2 USAR Team went to work, passing the youngsters bottles of water tied to the end of a stick.

The girls were rescued from their concrete grave and taken to a first aid shelter.


18 January 2010

It's Complicated










I saw this movie a few weeks back.  It was very funny and equally entertaining.  I really liked it and look forward to seeing it again when it hits cable.  Meryl Streep is simply the best.  She is lovely and funny.  Steve Martin is a favorite.  Alec Baldwin is hilarious.  The supporting actors were great, especially 'Harley'.  I pay no attention to the critics.  This is highly recommended by me - not limited for those of a slightly older generation.



12 January 2010

Mom & Dad, August 4, 1940
Mom and Dad's Wedding
August 4, 1940
Transfiguration Catholich Church
Mount Pleasant, Pennsylvania


10 January 2010

global warming?

I think not
take a look at the current weather
snow flurries in Naples, Florida?

I'll never be convinced
nature is unpreditable
there are cycles with the weather
just like there is with mostly everything else



05 January 2010

Winter

I do love winter - not many of us say that
but when I talk to someone who admits they like it, too - I actually get happy inside

why do I like winter?
I do like the cold, the snow, the winds that can be brutal
and a big part is because of what it is - the season we hibernate
I might grumble when the cold is a little too bitter
and I don't like driving when the roads are treacherous
but it is such a cozy time of year
the time we reacquaint ourselves with the interior of our homes

I love cuddling up on the couch with Sophie and Bob with a quilt and watching tv, or reading, or looking through magazines, or simply relaxing - no entertainment required

or burying myself in my bedroom's big bed, amidst lots of covers in a bedroom that is much colder but the way I prefer it

and to spend time in my 'Sweat Shop', making a bracelet, a card or sewing

this is the season that only requires minimal outdoor chores - what I consider downtime from the warm-weather busyness of tending to the gardens, mowing the lawn.........

winter = laziness (of sorts)

truth be known - I appreciate all the seasons
I am thankful I live in an area that is able to celebrate all seasons individually

so, for January, February and most of March.....I will enjoy the cold, the bitterness.....the hibernating
and when each new season arrives, I will embrace the specialness each has to offer

as always, I am thankful for my blessings


03 January 2010

St. Lucy's Catholic (Croatian) Church, Troy, MI
This isn't the church that I belong to, but I have adopted it and is where I usually go to mass. It is a simple church, one that originated as St. Jerome's, Detroit. When it was relocated it received a new name.
Its simplicity and quiet atmosphere is what draws me to attend mass there. The old statues and stained glass are beautiful. But the life-altering change in me is attributed to the cross with its life-like statue of Jesus is what takes my breath away. So many times my eyes fill with tears at how profound its impact is on me.
St. Lucy's is run by the Franciscan Order of Priests, another favorite of mine.

01 January 2010

My wish is a happy new year to everyone

starting 2010 is full of anticipation and hope
may this new year be full of changes - a better economy, people returning to work
less war, more peace
families being closer than ever
and God being a bigger part of everyone's lives
it's not a perfect world, but if each of us could start each day putting our lives in God's hands
our lives would become richer and happier

Blessings to all


My quilt star

My quilt star

Welcome to my little part of heaven..........

My life is about comfort and being close to the things I love, which means family, friends and living a quiet life. Embracing the small things in life is my reality.

I appreciate where God planted me and believe this is where I belong.

I don't know what the future holds for me, but as it unfolds, I'm enjoying the journey.


1925

1925
My historical home ♥

Winter

Winter

Spring

Spring

Summer

Summer

Autumn

Autumn

The Outbuilding

The Outbuilding
I love the morning shadows as they fall on my old-time garage. It's a good thing when your garage has an attractive paint job. Just don't look at the shingles on the south side of the roof. :-)

Michigan: State Flower-Apple Blossom & State Bird-Robin

Michigan:                           State Flower-Apple Blossom & State Bird-Robin

Sophie

Sophie

Bob

Bob

Sophie

Sophie
My very special companion. We found each other in August of 2006. It was one of those things when you truly know you found the right dog for you and that the dog felt the same way about you. And that was the beginning. I love coming home to my Sophie. She is still so much puppy, but I know how quickly the time goes by when the years aren't kind to dogs, so being a puppy for as long as possible is fine with me. She is loving and oh so affectionate. A true cuddler.

Bob

Bob
Here is my tailless cat. His best friend is Sophie. Watching both of them is so much fun. I hadn't expected to get another cat at the time I was at Petco looking at the fish. Then I heard that there was a pet adoption going on. Anyone who knows me knows how much I love cats. So of course I had to wander over. I looked at the adoptees and my eyes fell on Bob. I asked to hold him and that was all it took. He loved being held and of course he was acting as charming as possible. I said "Wrap him up." Off we went to the car and headed home. Bob doesn't so much like to be held like he did that first day. But that is ok. He is my little buddy. He is very happy living with me and Sophie, but not so much Chloe. He pretty much keeps out of Chloe's way and when he forgets, she reminds him. Trust me, she does. :-)~

Chloe

Chloe
This is my darling little kitty that has been with me for a very long time. She loves only me. Unfortunately her mom cat did not take her prenatal vitamins and Chloe suffered because of it. She has been blind for a very long time. The amazing thing is it is hard to notice it. She gets around wonderfully. Sometimes I get sad when I think about it because she can't see how I love her. But she feels it. She knows I love her and accept her for who she is - even when she is a little grumpy (don't we all have those kinds of days I ask?). God blesses our animals and sends them to us to make life just that much better. On 9.16.09 - Chloe left our little family to return "home". I miss her very much, but am comforted because I know she is with Daisy, Dumplin and Andrew - and can once again see as she roams in God's Home. This little cat will always be in my heart. Hugs and kisses to you, My Dear Little Chloe. I am so thankful for our time together. xoxo

bonita

bonita
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